tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1198125453064456988.post4093471812572705934..comments2023-07-14T06:02:42.282-04:00Comments on Happy Weight After: Day 4 of P5: Who is your diet enemy? Who is your Diet friend? You may be surprised.....and will update again later as Pilates calls....Princess Dieter aka Mirhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01121450857817115011noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1198125453064456988.post-30563018179217073412011-02-10T14:03:23.115-05:002011-02-10T14:03:23.115-05:00Talking about excuses... havin dinner right now (y...Talking about excuses... havin dinner right now (yes, in front of the notebook, and yes, I know that's not considered healthy eating, but screw it ^^), delicious pumpkin and beans stew with a bit of meat, and instead of enjoying the serving right in front of me, I found myself looking forward to the next serving!<br /><br />(I made enough for 2 days.)<br /><br />What the heck??? I put the plate down and laughed at myself. And now I will finish dinner and call it a day.Diandrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14570498251611083259noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1198125453064456988.post-13109248266431753552011-02-10T13:47:10.845-05:002011-02-10T13:47:10.845-05:00I prefer it when someone tells me to suck-it-up an...I prefer it when someone tells me to suck-it-up and to move my ass. I don't like the softy approach. You're totally right. People who are overeaters (like myself) need to be yelled at and kicked in the rump to get the best results. It's not helping if you have someone in your life telling you that it's not soooo bad if you have that slice of cake. Sometimes, you need to have someone in your ear say, "Do you REALLY need that slice of cake?" It's helpful to hear the truth! <br /><br />I like it ROUGH!Chubby McGeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01314736525363564330noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1198125453064456988.post-86034037772269814202011-02-10T13:20:01.949-05:002011-02-10T13:20:01.949-05:00Telling the truth to someone is one thing, belittl...Telling the truth to someone is one thing, belittling that person or bullying them is something entirely different. That does not show that you care.WWSuzihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14200582568720343436noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1198125453064456988.post-3180281219003314972011-02-10T13:14:34.054-05:002011-02-10T13:14:34.054-05:00It's true, so true, it's so not okay to en...It's true, so true, it's so not okay to enable folks who are killing themselves with a fork. It's tough hearing the truth, especially when you aren't ready to face up to the pain of walking away from the food. I HATED the person who told me the truth about my food and I am not a person prone to hatred. But I wanted to be left the hell alone to eat what I bloody well wanted to eat and for no one to hold me to any accountability. <br /><br />And if I hear another person say "tough love" I think my head will explode, I dunno why but I cannot bear that phrase - it TRUTH TELLING. And sometimes it's good to keep the old trap shut and sometimes it's good to speak up. There is a time for everything. And I guess we have to use discernment in making that decision.<br /><br />I tend to err on the side of keeping my mouth shut because I don't have the capacity to deal with any drama or fallout that may follow any plain speaking that I may want to do. <br /><br />Anyhow, glad you are doing well on the plan, keep on keepin' on.Bethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03661912528152366517noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1198125453064456988.post-65555833028429781982011-02-10T12:29:16.644-05:002011-02-10T12:29:16.644-05:00I agree. Great post. In what universe is it accept...I agree. Great post. In what universe is it acceptable to send kids off to school with pancakes and cinnamon rolls in their bellies? Even normal people, non-obese people get the sugar high and then the LARGE crash that follows a sugar binge like that. Truly, there is a certain someone who is getting all kinds of bad feedback that she will listen to because it is not as offensive to her as the blatant truth is. It is sad for her but she is an adult who makes her own choices but it is sadder for the kids are are being TAUGHT how to become obese.Karen Butler Oglehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06467675086434536522noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1198125453064456988.post-77083000802452299172011-02-10T12:20:25.476-05:002011-02-10T12:20:25.476-05:00great post!great post!Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14942703781850938564noreply@blogger.com